I've just been having a very 'sex and the city' style think. I was sat eating my chicken soup thinking about relationships and how much analysing I do when I become involved with someone new. I spend so much time analysing myself and even more so, the other person, trying to work out what they're about and what kind of person they are and why. Although I realise bringing up their 'ex's' isn't appropriate if done 5864 times in a day, I tend to find it very difficult not to, I seem to enjoy condradicting myself but ill continue... I think its very interesting and educating to hear about their ex, 1. so I know how they treated them 2. to know how they tolerated it 3. how time was spent together 4. how close they were eg arguements etc. All this is very intriguing while at the same time, shouldn't every relationship be a new beginning and a new start on both parts? I think every relationship shapes our next one, influencing it massively, and we change so much. I don't know how to conclude this, and to be honest this blog has NO real hypothesis but I think I just needed to write all this bullshit down. Have a nice day!